I always thought I would never be able to comprehend or express what love meant. I grew up without hearing those simple words.
I thought I would know how to love, that it would come naturally.
I realized that unconditional love does not come easy; it is something learned and practiced.
Every single obstacle of life allows you to discover new ways of loving.
To love unconditionally is to love with absolutely no boundaries.
There are many times in my life when I feel that loving someone seems nearly impossible. There are times I say harsh things to people I love just because things aren’t going my way.
In these situations, I find myself putting provisions on love. We attach it to how others are acting, and whether they reciprocate the feelings we give to them. We attach it to the circumstances and emotions that go on in a single moment.
I find myself holding back, fearful of being hurt, afraid to sacrifice a piece of myself.
Love because you’re grateful for the things someone has done for you. Love because someone needs you, needs a friend to lean on during their struggles. Love even when it is difficult, even when your mind tells you that you shouldn’t.
Love by looking beyond people’s faults, struggles, and whatever pain and hardships that life may bring.
This unconditional love is something that can so easily be given if we recognize it, and that can change someone else’s life completely.
When we love and treat each other with the utmost care and attention, the little things that bother us seem far less overwhelming.
What would the world be like if we stopped looking to get something in return, and just loved unconditionally, for the happiness and inner peace it brings us all?
No comments:
Post a Comment